7 Ways to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom
7 Sure-Fire Ways to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom
Are you in need of spicing up that love life? Is your relationship starting to feel a bit routine? Is it running dry? Do you miss those early days and now you are wondering what happened? You are in luck, because we are going to tell you 7 ways to spice things up in bed…
7. Blindfold your partner
If you want to spice things up in bed a bit, then try the blindfolding adventure. There are many dimensions in sexual pleasures and one of the more important sexual organs would be the brain. By depriving your partner of one of their senses (such as sight), the brain will heighten all others which will make the experience that much more pleasurable.
6. Give instructions
You may think you know how to please your partner in every way imaginable. However, this is rarely true. There are some things that you have not tried. Play the “give instructions” game. Allow him or her to give you instructions and tell you what to do when you are in bed. Keep an open mind and remember, this is about your partners pleasure FIRST. This sounds like fun!
5. A nice massage
Having that sensual touch is more than relaxing. It is very sexy, which is why we have included it on our list. When you get a massage, you are increasing the sexual energy flow. Use an arousing skin lotion or warming body oil that will ensure the romantic massage succeeds in relaxing your partner and helps to connect you both intimately. While you can––and should––read up on different massage techniques, don’t be held back by trying to perfect them. It is more useful to trust in the natural, healing and comforting power of your hands and follow your intuition about what feels best than to be hung up on using the exact right strokes.
4. Dress up for the occasion
Dressing up for the occasion sounds good! This is something that many individuals like doing. There is definitely some benefits to this one. This is a fun way to behave differently during sex. Playing the role of someone else during sex can be enjoyable and is a great way to bring new sensations.
3. Discuss your fantasies.
Surely, you have some fantasies. Speaking with your partner about your fantasies is a great form of sex play. It will increase the communication between the two of you, which is very important. It is great to get to know each other for better sex. You may be surprised at what comes out of your partners mouth.
2. Play A game
Get out a pack of your cards and play strip poker. Yay! Doesn’t this sound fun? You may have played poker before, but have you play strip poker as an adult? This is a great way to get naked. Once both of you are naked, you will be getting to the really fun part. When there is a loss, this means the other gets to choose the action that will be performed by the loser.
1. Dirty talk!
I have heard that many have problems with dirty talk with the partner. Try practicing to yourself when no one is around. Eventually, you will get the hand of it. Dirty talking during sexual intercourse has so many benefits. It has something that sex play does not have and that is words.
We automatically respond to spoken words, especially when the partner using our name. For those of you that Dirty Talk is not your thing, try spicing up your experience with some Erotic Music! This not only helps to set the mood but allows you to experience the sense of sound in a whole new way!
Those are 7 ways to spice things up in bed that you should try. Dressing Up, Sensory Deprivation and Erotic Music are three of our favorites. If you feel that you and your partner are just planning sex, then maybe you should try some of the things from our list. Do you have any other ideas?